Are you worried your girlfriend is cheating on you? Here are the signs that she is Cheating on you. Please ensure that before you conclude that your girlfriend or wife is cheating on you, These should be the Signs to look for.
When you tell your friend or anyone close to you, that you suspect your partner of cheating on you, they might laugh it off and asked you to push such fillings aside, i stand to disagree, except you’re the negative type who is always seeing bad and suspecting everybody around you.
Am a firm believer, that when something disturbs you, that particular feelings do come from somewhere. When you get a hunch that your girlfriend is straying, it’s hard to shake it off. Regardless of how long you’ve been together or how often she swears up and down that nothing is going on, you should probably check for the hidden signs to clue you in to her real intentions.
Please take note that these points and signs are not scientifically proven, but experts agree on these indicators that you should heed to them, when in doubt about your lady’s love:
Signs She’s Cheating On You
1. She Keeps To Herself
When you get that feelings that you can’t trust someone, what are the steps you take? Certainly, among the precautions you’ll be taking, is to keep to yourself. You Partner might be busy with juggling work schedules, making it to yoga class and seeing her girlfriends, etc. But if you noticed that she’s not telling you about her day, there’s a chance she’s telling someone else, how hectic it was and who got her angry.
According to Successful dating coach and Book Author, Laurel House, who said that, if she isn’t discussing her frustrations, highs and lows with her partner, then you certainly need to have reasons to fret.
“Do you feel like you’re just getting the ‘need to know’ information without getting into how something made her feel?” Author Laurel House asks. If she’s not giving the gist like the beginning of your relationship, then that should be a cause for alarm, because she might be leaning on another guy.
2. She’s Not As Open As Before
For once, let us get real, feminism aside, we all know that women are much more open about their feelings than men are. What makes a stronger relationship is when you noticed that you are able, to open up to a special girl that you feel connected to her, and when she opens up in return, you’ll feel it deep down your heart, that your relationship is growing positively.
However, if she’s quiet and hardly ever upset about anything you said or your actions, she might be emotionally cheating with someone else. and do you know Why?
Because unlike men, women cheat emotionally before they take it to the physical level, according to an expert who said, and i quote below:
“An emotional affair can actually be more dangerous than the typical male affair”.
She Hides Her Mobile Phone
WHY would anyone, especially your SO (Significant other) hides her mobile phones, or lock them from you? When your partner is actually doing something she knows she shouldn’t, it is more likely that she’ll feel guilty about it.
You might notice that she does not come out with her phones when with you, and instead of spending time scrolling through social media like Twitter, Facebook, Snapchat or Instagram on the couch with you, she put her phone in the other room, to avoid you going through it or seeing her chats, sms.
The main reason for such action is because she does not want to risk you looking over and catching her in the act. According to Relationship author, Laurel House, who said and i quote below;
“Women may hide text messages, email exchanges, and phone calls with a ‘good friend.”. “He could start off as just a friend, but it could also be progressing into more.” Remember how you started? You might have also started as a friend too. 😀
She’s Light On Details
When you started your relationship, you noticed that everything your girlfriend does, she notifies you and want to share all the juicy discussions her friends talk, the new boyfriends her friends had?
Recalled the beginning of your relationship, when she always had that monthly wine and supper club with her girls, and a few times a month when they hit the town, but now there another meeting, which includes a “book club”? 🙂 And her friends are now taking yoga classes too?
You shouldn’t be rushing to conclusion yet, but here are two examples as to why, she could be having more time outside.
1. She could be needing more friendship time in her life,
2. Or she could be seeing someone on the side.
According to Laurel House who said, that the key here is to pay attention to what she says when she sees you after those nights. “Instead of coming home and filling you in on all the details and gossip she learned while out with the girls, she might seems cagey and could not be forthcoming about what they did or talked about.”
She’s Always Tired For Lovemaking
Although at the beginning of you relationship, you might have been the initiator of sεx in your relationship. But if you can’t recalled the very last time you had sεx, and she doesn’t seem too concerned to change it or even discuss it, then you might have grounds to doubt her loyalty.
ACCORDING to Sεx expert and author, Dr. Kat Van Kirk who said something powerful regarding issues like this, which is quoted below”
When you noticed that your partner wants significantly less sεx or physical contact, it’s a sign that their interests now lie elsewhere or with someone.
She’s Had A Drastic Makeover
I kept this list, so that this point will be the last one, which might be arguable.
Although we know that women do love been beautiful and constantly change their wardrobe, and gets a new haircut from time-to-time.
However, when you noticed a lady losing lots of weight, and she becomes overly concerned with her looks and decided to completely changed her style, she could be preparing herself for a new relationship.
Sεx author, Van Kirk says women often reinvent themselves outwardly when they’re feeling the need for change inwardly, so if she’s being antsy, you might have reason to be, too.
When your partner starts feeling you’re insecure, she might decided to cheat on you. Although it was her choice to do this, it’s proven that women sometimes cheat on their partner when they feel like their partner is being too clingy or accusing them of being interested in someone else.
It’s almost like a self-fulfilling prophecy, Dating and Relationship Author, Laurel House says. “Unless you truly do want her to see you through your tainted glasses, don’t point out your insecurities and physical flaws to her in your relationship” she suggests.
“There is something powerful about the mindset, when as a man in a relationship and you starts to constantly question if you are good enough for her, she might start to wonder the same thing and look for something better or “Good enough for her”.”